Decisions, decisions, decisions! Wouldn’t it be wonderful if you didn’t have to make them? The answer is no.
You should welcome being in control of your decisions because nobody is more qualified to make bone health decisions for yourself than you.
But because you may not be sure of yourself, you might become stressed and anxious.
So today, I want to give you the five main reasons why you are more than qualified to make your own osteoporosis choices – regardless of what anyone else tells you…
Because you are a truth-seeker
Nothing can stop you from finding the truth. The mere fact that you are on this website proves it.
You want to discover the truth about your osteoporosis diagnosis, about the drugs you were prescribed, and everything else you need to know, so you can make an educated decision. While others blindly accept what they’ve been given and told, you are willing to go the extra mile.
This isn’t to say that you will actively disobey what your doctor tells you, but rather you would like to discuss your findings with him or her in an open and pleasant dialogue. As George Lundberg, M.D., executive vice-president and editor-in-chief of Medicalogic/Medscape states in an interview, “physicians need to welcome the idea of patients being interested in their own health.” Amen, George!
Because you question everything
You want detailed, common-sense information and you won’t settle for the proverbial “because I say so.”
You want to get to the bottom of things. But did you know that unlike you, most doctors don’t research the latest health information?
The US Department of Health and Human Services reports that “once a new piece of scientific evidence emerges as a medical advance, it takes up to 17 years before doctors routinely incorporate that information into how they practice medicine” (Comparative Effectiveness Research: What It Means for You, Carolyn M. Clancy, M.D, April 7, 2009).
In light of this, it surely does not look like a good idea to rely on your doctor for the latest information on any health topic, let alone osteoporosis.
Because only you know what your “normal” feels like
You know yourself better than anyone else, so you know when you’re just not feeling right. I receive many emails from readers about how doctors denied the side-effects they suffered while taking osteoporosis drugs, and flatly transferred the blame to another unrelated condition.
For example, many in our community wrote that when they complained of acid reflux while taking bisphosphonates (a common side-effect of those drugs), the doctor would blame it on stress, and handed out yet another prescription for an anxiety drug. More often than not, stories like these don’t have a happy ending… As the saying goes, “practice makes perfect”, and you have been practicing at being “you” since the day you were born.
Because you did not study Medicine
You see, Medical students immerse themselves in a wide array of complicated subjects, and they also need to memorize information on thousands of prescription drugs. The Physician’s Desk Reference has information on over 4,000 drugs, and the number keeps growing every year. Clearly, doctors are exposed to an overwhelming amount of data.
So it is not surprising that Dr. Barbara Starfield of the Johns Hopkins School of Hygiene and Public Health writes that there are about 250,000 iatrogenic deaths (physician-caused deaths) per year in the USA. Plus there are 12,000 unnecessary surgeries, 7,000 medication errors in hospitals, 20,000 “other errors” in hospitals, 80,000 infections acquired in hospitals, and 106,000 “non-error, negative effects of drugs.”
Alarmingly, medical-induced deaths are the third leading cause of death in the USA, after heart disease and cancer (B. Starfield, M.D., Journal of the American Medical Association, Is US health really the best in the world? July 2000).
Fortunately, you have an edge over any doctor because you only have to focus on your own health issues. If you've gone through the Osteoporosis Reversal Program and read the articles on this website, you most likely are already more of an expert on the truth about osteoporosis than your own doctor is!
Because you are self-sufficient
You know that your body is designed for health and not for disease, so you trust its ability to heal itself. Even a single microscopic cell in your body has more chemical processes going on than all the chemical factories in the world combined. Now multiply that by about 75 trillion, which is the approximate number of cells in your body, and you’ve got yourself an industrial complex the likes of which you’ll never see on our planet.
Indeed, osteoporosis prescriptions drugs are no match to what your osteoblasts and osteoclasts can do.
And let’s not forget that Nature also gives you a helping hand to improve your bone health. For example, there are approximately 8,000 bone-healthy plant polyphenols that can help increase the production of osteoblasts (Garie G. Duthie et al. Plant Polyphenols: are they the new magic bullet? Proceedings of the Nutrition Society, 2003).
These powerful antioxidants are found in every day fruits like apples, cherries, cantaloupe, pears and grapes.
Conclusion
Now that you know that you are your best bone health decision-maker, it will help you achieve peace of mind. And then, a beautiful thing happens: along with the peace of mind comes less stress, better decisions, and better overall bone health. As I mentioned before, this website is testimony to your willingness to take responsibility for your bone health and to the power in your decisions – I'm glad you made it here.
I was prescribed Fosamax for three years and then Actonel for two. My Bone Density showed that my Osteoporosis had gotten worse. My doctor wanted to order another medication, but I refused. I said enough with medication! I told him that I was going to exercise and hope for the best.After all, I had nothing to lose.
I have fractures in my spine and hip. Initially, it was just the spine.
Great thinking right on-the-mark!!!!!!
This is all so interesting! I had a bone density last year and it came back that I have osteo…I refused any drugs as my husband is on so many and I can see what they do to him..I know I have to get off coffee,tea etc.and I will be getting your “save the bone” book…I know I have to change some lifestyle habits I have and this is all so encouraging..thanks for all the info
Thank you,thank you Vivian:)
Keep up the excellent work,my husband got me your book, since then I’m free from all the side effects& worries(from the drugs)
thanks for all the info trying to get it all together and under stand some is a surprise but and very interesting
Thank you for all you are doing.
And many thanks for this article.
Irena
I have just finished 13 months of Forteo. My DEXA scan improved greatly From a -3.9 (lumbar area) to a -2.1. My hip is still -1.6 (no change). I am going to take a break at end of December and I will still have 9 months that I can take Forteo and a later date if neccesary (may only take Forteo for total of 24 months) I assume I will have to take a biophosphonate for a period of time so that I do not have “rapid osteoclast resorption”. I have read that this is a risk when stopping Forteo. Any thoughts or suggestions?
I took Forteo shots for about 5-6 months. Then I had 12 compressed vertabrae during the end of 06-07 .I will NOT take any more of them.I was in bed most of that time. I found out I didn’t have any Vitamin D at all when having my bloodwork.I used the nasal spray for a little over a month and I had another compressed fracture in December. My Vitamin D and Calcium were fine. This fracture was one I had years ago and I fractured it again. I have had the cement procedures on all of the vertabrae in my back now. I was advised to use the Reclast drip. I am afraid of that now.I think I will just stay with the Vitamin D3 and my Calcium. Thank you .
At one time you offered your orignal “save your bones” without having to purchase all the other books. I really wish you would offer this again. take care–Linda
Hi Vivian:
I have been told by an internist, that no one knows my body like I do. He said he wishes more of his patients knew what was good for them as I do.
Thank you for putting it in writing.
Rhoda
Hi Vivian,
I’m always happy to see your name pop up in my inbox. What is Vivian up to now? 🙂 Thanks for being so dedicated to helping us live our lives fully. Your encouragement and information is really a blessing.
Thank you so much, Lynn
Thank you for your concern and information! I appreciate all your time and research.
Thank you again,
Junette Argyle
Y’als video is skipping and stopping. I just thought you should know about this. What I could see of the video I really liked.
Good on you Vivian! Love reading and learning new things about my health that I am in control of. Keep it up, and thanks!
Dear Vivian,
Thank you so much for your hard work and dedication to all of us with osteo. your new information allways makes me so greatful i never started taking the osteo meds. I was prescribed. I always look forward to your emails! thanks again.
Wonderful article!
Keep the public aware of the facts that are often shaded and allow the light of knowledge to shine on them.
Many thanx!
I don’t know what to do. My bones are fragile and I’m torn between medications and vitimins….I need help. Can you help me? i
Kristen,
Good news: you CAN conquer osteoporosis by following a nutritional plan and taking the right supplements.
Read about it, analyze it, decide…and believe in yourself 🙂
Hi Vivian 🙂
Since finding out about Bisphosphonates on the net and what they do to your body, I now never accept a drug until I have read more about it, if I don’t like what I see then I don’t use them. I do have to take an antibiotic occasionally because I am immune deficient, but on the whole that’s about all I will take with exception to using my B/P & water tabs.
So decision making is now a whole lot easier when we can use the net, which is probably a headache for most of our G/P’s, who do their very best to help us, after all they have spent many years studying & training to get to the position they are now in.
In a nutshell…. I now make up my own mind, I am 65 years and I am taking care of my own bone health with healthy eating and exercise.
Marysia
I have joined uour bone health programme and am quite satisfired with it. I was also prescribed drugs and had many side effects, for which the doctors had no answers.
I have also read your book and found it very informative. Thanks.
I’m so glad that I found your web-site all those months ago Vivian. I had just picked up my first script for Fosamax; and with my chemist’s warning about it building brittle bone – I went to the web to find out about it – and found your site. I’m doing all I can – including cooking the “green bananas” plaitain ?? An Indian friend told me to cook them just like potato – and that’s what they taste like. She told me to peel off the outer skin fibre – leaving some covering – cut them up and cover with water – bring to the boil and simmer until soft – strain and rinse – and eat!! There are lots of ways to cook them – but the less trouble for me the better. (I’m 78years old this month). Apparently the “short-chain fatty acids” are very benefical to our “Good bacteria” and keep them healthy and happy – so we enjoy good bowel health!! Thanks again for all your wonderful work – I could not play the Heel lift Video – can you send an e-mail with the exercise in it?? Many Blessings Kelsey Fickling, AUSTRALIA.
Thanks for keeping us up to date.
Good information from all !
Please be advised that you yourself are your own best friend ! The road to recovery from the bone loss you all may be having is reversable…..the process is not to happen overnight….and following your own common sense and the good recommendations found in Vivian’s Bone Health Revolution will, hopefully, turn things around in the right direction…be patient and be kind to yourself, keep sharing and caring for all those you love – including yourself !!
Hello Vivian;
Many tx for all the info. Many doctors recommend calcium and vita D3; unfortunately, this combination does not improve bone strength and if it enters the bloodstream it can damage the arteries according to Dr.Carolyn DeMarco & Dr. Letitia Rao who are in charge of the research lab on calcium at St.Michael’s hospital in Toronto. Title of the book: The Bone Building Solution. I was diagnosed with osteopennia and my doctor was already suspicious because I had lost three inches of height at age sixty already and I am now eighty yrs old and have lost another 3/4 inch of my height, and yet the bone densitomitry test still states osteopennia, a bone specialist told me two years ago that I was definetly suffering from osteoperosis; however, he claimed there is a very fine line between the diagnosis of the two. Since I read the book about the bone building solution I have been taking the proper calcium preparation.
Tx again, Vivian and keep up the wonderful work.
Edie
stopped
taking alendronic acid april 22nd 2009 and began treatment with strontium {the bonemaker} much improved awaiting results of latest scan will let you know
It is scary to read that medical induced deaths are the third leading cause of deaths in the USA. I am doing every thing I can do for my bones,with out taking drugs.I hope that its enough. I have been on the 80-20 plan for about two months now,changed my drinking water,take all the vit.& minerals,and do weight bearing excerise. When should I have another bone density test done,how many months? carol
HI MARGRET oLSEN , WHERE DID YOU FIND THE WEIGHT WALKING VEST YOU SAID YOU LIKED?
I WANT TO GET ONE FOR MY WIFE FOR THE HOLIDAYS
BUT MOST OF THEM ARE REALLY UGLY LOOKING DO YOU HAVE THE STORE NAME?
If you find out about the weight walking vest, would you please pass on the information to me? I found out that I have a lot of visceral fat around my heart altho’ I am not overweight. I feel that it has something to do with my having had asthma and COPD for most of my life and my cortisol levels. Taking cortisone for most of my life has affected my bones. Catch 22’s. Thank you. Happy Holidays to you!
Just read ccomment by Tricia… Dont take that drug Tricia !!
that is the one mentioned in the $300,000,000.00 dollar lawsuit !
That is the one that gave people bone tumors and made some people loose their teeth and jaws!!
Tricia buy a bottle of calcium magnesum in the health food store
don’t be stupid.
Hi I love the advice Vivian has , it is really
important to stay imformed as the AMA is not telling women the truth about bone health they are only pumping you full of very dangerous
chemicals . In fact I read the other day that
one of those bone drug companies is being sued for giving women everything from bone tumors to necrosis of the jaw bone by many people.
I listen to Viv and use my NYK wieght vest which is bone strengthening exercise also , I wear it when walking and take no drugs.
Women wake up you are being taken for a ride by your great greedy doctors.
Thank you and everyone else for your comments. I have long ago decided that bisphosphonates were not for me, but wondered if I was making a mistake. Please inform me where I can purchase a NYK weight walking vest. Right now I carry a weight inside a back pack!
I have never heard of the walking vest & wondered were they can be purchased. This information would be greatly appreciated.
Dear Vivian, I like your latest article, the way you treat me and all of your group as intelligent people who can make choices of our own.
I took courage some months ago to stop taking Alendronic acid which I had been taking for about six years. It was the day when I saw the osteoporosis nurse and we had been talking about moving on to another drug. The literature had been in my hands for several months but I could not decide what to do. Not having a computer up and running at the time was part of the problem. What a joy it is to search the web and arm oneself with information.
You have a feisty lot of readers over there in the USofA. I am full of admiration for their dedication to self healing and clarity of purpose. We will all learn together.
Strength to your typing arm, Vivian and many thanks, Christine
How true. I appreciate your words and my ability to question what any person wants me to put in my body.
Once again thankyou for all yr support to all of us out there special thankyou!!
Regards Steve.
Steve,was low testostorone part of your osteoporosis problem? James
I just wondered if you had replied to the message I left, yet find it difficult to access chat room.
Thanks.
Thank you Vivian for pointing out that doctors are often not very well informed and that we have to listen to our bodies.
Your suggestions on what fruit protect us are very helpful and help reduce anxiety about our diets. You put us in charge of our health with natural products.
Thanks for all the info Vivian! Check out the OCT. 2009 article (Life without Josie) and you will see a first-hand experience that is heart-wrenching about a family who lost a baby because of medical mistakes. I do not want any of my family or me-included to be one of those stats. Your research and info make good sense to me. My body cannot handle drugs. your natural way of helping me with my bones is GREAT NEWS and I will continue to learn more about these things Drs. don’t want you to know about — Thanks, Vivian!
Sorry – that was the OCTOBER, 2009 GOOD HOUSEKEEPING magazine that tells the story of the medical mistakes and this mother’s passion to share the info with others. I admire her courage to talk up to the medical profession as she helps protect other families. You do the same—THANK YOU!
Thank you Vivian, for your dedication to spreading the truth about bone health and for encouraging women to decide for themselves which course of action to take.
Hi Vivian,
Thanks for all the information you have provided on this subject. I have read each and everyone of your messages that you have sent me, plus I have read the book. I’m so very happy that I decided to research the medicine that the doctor had prescribed. My appointment with that doctor is coming up on Nov 17 and I can’t wait to tell her what I have discovered and what I have decided to do about my bone health. Tomorrow, Nov 6, my new treadmill will be delivered and I plan to use it everyday if at all possible, plus eat some of the right foods and just be happy and fortunate that I’m not one of those people that is suffering with the complications of these horrible medicines. Thanks again for sharing this information with me and others that have taken advantage of what you researched and discovered. People like you are hard to find, especially nowadays with all the fraud and abuse that is going on in the medical field. Elvia
I BLEVE JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING YOU SAY.
THANK YOU FOR CARING
Have you plugged into your readers that strontium is a major factor increasing bone STRENGTH which can be just as valuable as increasing bone density? A unresolved question I have is–taking a chelating agent counter productive to bone supplenentation for osteoporosis?
I have taken Fosovance, Actonel + Evista. Discontinued each after 3 months + having discussed it with the family physician. Side effects were severe + removed the quality of life. I discontinued taking Evista in January of 2007- it caused among other things such horrendous muscle spasms that I was becoming immobile. the spasms caused my sciatica to become extremely aggrevated to the point where I was unable to sit, walk. lay down without great pain. I finally went to the Chiropractic College and they helped a great deal with exercises, that I continue every morning and they keep my sciatica under control; however, I still have problems with muscle spasms; nevertheless, they are far less frequent now.
I also took medication for hypothyroidism and had such gumsores that I could only take liquids for nourishment. I saw a medical doctor, not my own as she does not believe in herbal treatments, + she suggested one milkthisle capsule and one hawthorne and gugulon 15 minutes later – prior to breakfast and dinner time. My gums healed within two weeks and my thyroid is fine – I have been following this regime for nine years and I am now eighty years old. I also take calcium tablet daily of 1000 mg including many other minerals. I do not take any medications at this time although I was informed in 1996 that if I did not take my heart medication which I had discontinued then I would be dead in two years. As you can tell that I am still alive today. Thank you for all the useful information.
Hi Vivian, Thank’s so much for all your info, I really apprieciate all you do for me.Please keep up the good work. I will keep my eyes open for any other messages you send. Thank you Your’s Dolores
I HAVE BEEN EXERCISING AT THE YMCA FOUR TO FIVE DAYS A WEEK AND EATING YOUR HEALTHY FOOD FROM THE “BONE HEALTH REVOLUTION”.
I PRAY MY NEXT BONE DENSITY WILL IMPROVE IN 2010.
ARLENE
Arlene,
Way to go! Keep up your enthusiasm. I’m sure you’ll do great!
I have had osteporosis for twenty years and I TRY TO READ EVERYTHING i CAN TO GET HELP AND I TOOK A 6MOMTHS CLASS AT A HOSPITAL WITH OTHERS THAT HAD OSTEOPORIS, AND TOO FOSAMAX DURING THAT TIME. NOW I DON’T TAKE ANYTING BUT CAL
I find Your articles about bone health very helpfull. do You also have knowledge about
arthritis ? I wake up 5 hours after I go to bed and have pain on my leg midway between knee and hip, MD says I have arthritis on knee and hip but pain goes away as soon I get up and walk, there is no swelling or redness I work out every day no pain till 5 hours after I lay down, my MD has no answers. Bill
I took fosamax for many years and quit because of acid reflux and other side effects. Now my doctor wants me to take Evista which I have no intention of taking. Hopefully with extra calcium and vitamin D and milk products I will manage to have no broken bones as have managed well so far at 70.
re your article many thanks for all the info. I have been on actonel for the last 6 years and I am now diagnosed with severe osteoporosis, 2 crushed vertebrae,etc…I did everything right, so I thought! But, one thing has occurred to me, I am on thyroid meds. for the last 3 yrs. and it seems that ever since I am on them , my bone density results were getting worse. My Endocrinologist does not agree with my theory and I am in a bind and very frightened! From all reports that I have read, the thyroid gland is the catalyst. Does this make sense to you? I am now in a desperate frame of mind, all the calcium,etc, gets leached from my bones no matter what I try. If someone else can relate to this, I would appreciate hearing from you. Shirley
I took Fosomax for approximately 5 years and then I started having problems with tightness and pressure in my throat and sometimes difficulty swallowing. I started searching for some answers and found this website. I stopped taking the medication in August and am already much better. Thank you so much for going to the effort to help others.
Some of the medications used for
Osteoporosis can cause Seizures!
I have purchased the book and its worth the read. I also took advantage of purchasinf a piece of equipent called vibeplare….for thos who do not exercise as often as they should to increase bone mass. I purchased it because i am in a wheelchair and have osterposis. It works amazing and thank the author for sending the information thru a newsletter.
To me, what you are saying isn’t controversial at all as I have always been very independent. I make all of my own decisions based on research and keep an open mind. Thank you for your valuable input. Please continue to share.
Andrea Moore
I was on Fosomax for five years and had no problems with it. However, because I am healthy and athletic, now sixty years of age, I preferred not to be on any medication and adopted your diet. Two bone density tests later, my doctor called me in to inform me that my bone density, which had improved with Fosamax, was markedly less–but he left the decision up to me. He pointed out that there are no real ways of testing the efficacy of a drug that is supposed to reduce bone breakage–other than doing a study in which fifty women are dropped out of the same five-story window to see whose bones resisted breakage. He also pointed out that the body naturally has to balance out its acidity/alkalinity all the time. (Strenuous execise produces a lot of lactic acid. Does that mean that it’s bad for you?)
I hope that all of your followers examine their own situations. I’m sure one can cite a “scientific study” to support practically any premise.
Deborah Greitzer
Has anyone heard of Zometa – Zoledronic Acid for treatment of osteoporosis. It apparently is an annual injection. Anyone tried this?
Judi
Dear Vivian,
It is always very helpful to read your comments on bone situation. I have been aware of so many issues from your articles – thank you. I actually have decided to buy your book.
Recently, my bones have started to be week. I am more concerned on what I should do more to feel better. My doctor prescribed Calcium/Vitamin D – should I take it or not. Give me your advice. God bless. Desta
Vivian — I should be straightforward and reveal immediately that I am a foe of bisphosphanates, for the multiple reasons you have listed in many posts. But I have a question. I’m admittedly no whiz at math, but one set of publicized stats I find particularly ludicrous. On the one hand, the number of osteoporosis-related fractures has risen dramatically over the last decade. That fact is inarguable. At the same time, the makers of drugs like Fosamax claim that their products have substantially reduced the numbers of osteoporosis-related fractures. Obviously, the two statements don’t jibe, but out of curiosity, I contacted the author of the article indicating that fractures had dramatically increased, and asked whether the study took into account any of the following: (1) whether the fractures occurred in women who were or were not taking bisphosphanates; (2) whether the women suffering fractures were on any kind of osteoporosis supplements or diets; and (3) whether the women were aware, prior to the fracture, that they had osteoporosis (under the new definition.) The answer was “no” to all three questions. None of those factors were taken into account at all. How can Big Pharma get away with issuing such blatantly contradictory statements?